With new arrival at home, and having been without Mummy for two days, our lil girl was sad. Although she was accommodating with her brother, she was so overwhelmed with feeling that she broke down on the third night.
We felt sorry for her. Our time, or Mummy's time was so much reduced now. Mummy had to feed and change diaper at less than 2 hours intervals. There was really no time to spend on our girl, let alone having shut eyes.
I tried to fill the gap without success. Mummy is indeed unique to children. Truly respect that. However, the past few days, Daddy and daughter bond has grown stronger.
Whenever my girl said, "Daddy love me". I would reply, "Yes. Mummy, Daddy, Grandma, Grandpa, Uncle, Aunt, teacher, and everyone loves you because you are a good good girl".
When Mummy was feeding lil brother, she did not try to take her Mummy away. Instead, she was teary-eyed and said "I want to snuggle towards Mummy". There, she rested her back to Mummy and laid there waiting for mummy to finish nursing.
Sigh. It's a heartbreaking experience seeing our kids going through this. We are constantly trying to let the lil brother to accommodate our girl rather than the other way. However we try, or lil girl knows.
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